Having More Sex, Getting More Dates and Getting That 2nd Date?

This article goes out to all the guys out there whom are trying to become more datable.

I'll cut right to the point: Women love a man with confidence.

Women want to feel protected. Women want to feel like they have a stable future for themselves.

Women have a deep biological need to feel that they are safe and that their offspring are protected. Many of them openly acknowledge this fact to themselves and others while in some women is is not consciously considered but a subconscious motivator. While this point may seem obvious, we can use this knowledge as sort of an insider's advantage when it comes to attracting women.

Let's clarify this further. Since before recorded history, women were the caregivers to the children. This biological instinct to ensure the safety and welfare of the offspring was the most powerful driving motivating force in a woman. In many ways, it still is. They had to ensure the offspring survived. The best way to ensure this was to be aligned with a man that could physically protect them. This instinct survives to this day.

The confident man projects an emotional image to his mate that he will never let her down. He gives reassurance that he will prevail and protect the family despite what is happening in the world around them. With a word or a wink he assures those in his care that they can look up to him in even the most trying circumstances; they can count on him to take calm, measured action to make the right move.

A man who believes in himself has goals. He has enthusiasm. He has energy and vitality. He has the confidence to move towards his goals and make those in his care feel like they are also moving forward.

Women don't appreciate a man that follows them around like a puppy. They don't find tongue-tied men attractive. A man nervous around them project fear and the sense that he's not good enough to associate with if he can't even come across confidently in meeting a woman he admires.

This doesn't mean that he is arrogant nor rude. A man that truly has confidence doesn't have anything to prove to anyone else and is gentle and reassuring. This is not a forced, fake confidence but a steady, deep belief in one's self, one's place in the world and where one is headed.

People enjoy being around a person of confidence because they have a "catchy", magnetic bright personality.

I belong to an organization, called the Global Information Network, which gives training in the mental tools and techniques mentioned above that can help shape a man towards becoming HIS own best vision of himself- and gain that personal confidence that I believe, women find simply irresistible.

Here's one tip. Act as if. If you aren't confident now, remember when you meet someone that it is just 2 important people meeting together to talk about a mutual subject of interest. Look them in the eye, shake hands warmly and speak in a loud, clear voice your greeting. If you "act" confident, pretty soon you will be confident.

The organization I mentioned above can help.

[http://www.globalinformationnetworkHOME.com]

Shannon